Everyone seeks to be a good person, caring, kind and great. But some of us don’t struggle to quit bad habits and some people don’t even realize their behaviors which makes them unattractive. What are your priorities when you choose people who will be around you? No one wants annoying people as a friend. Even ıf you’re a good looking person having some bad habits will make you quite ugly. A few of these harmful characteristics are offered for you below, and if you happen to realize that you have any of them- quit! Your life surelly will be better and you might find your circle of friends grow once you do.
1. You are Self-Absorbed
Many people do it without realizing it. You solely focus on yourself, talk only about yourself and often dont care what others around you have to say. You pretend to listening but you only think what you will say while others speak. You think you are the only that matters. You don’t care others. If you have this kind of habit. It’s time to change. No one wants to be friend with someone who only cares about themselves.
2. You Focus on Outer Beauty, Ignoring What’s Inside
Obviously true beauty comes from within your heart and soul. Your physical appearance is not the most important thing. There are more valuable things like generosity, loyalty and modesty. Unfortunately ”most people don’t wonder what’s inside of people when they don’t like their appearance.” ”Outer beauty is temporary in contrast to inner beauty.”
“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.”
― Kahlil Gibran
3. You are Always in Competition
Do you really have to be better than everyone else. You won’t lose anything if you praise others. You can motivate other people in this way most of the time. Be sure that people will find you more attractive when you help them. If they overcame their fear of heights and climbed 10 feet in the air, don’t say, “Is that all? I’ve climbed 40 feet!” Instead say, “Wow! That’s great I’m really proud of you. I am sure that you will do better soon”
4. You Question Your Importance to Others
What would you do if your two friends went to a camp without you. If you really get mad and constantly question them, you are absolutely an unattractive person. The thing you should do in this situation is just to ignore it. Chat and ask them how their camp has gone and in a gentle way you can offer to go together next time.
5. You are Insistent On to Be a Leader
When you’re with your friends, don’t try to be a boss. Just relax, don’t try to control what they are doing. Do not insist on your decisions. Tell them as an advice and make the decisions together.
6. You are Dishonest
Honesty is the highest form of intimacy
Honesty won’t only help you to be attractive, being honest is one of the most necessary thing in every part of your life. No one wants a liar to be around them.
”Honesty is the best policy.”
7. You are Rude
”Rudeness is the weak person’s imitation of strength.”
When you insult or embrace someone you will demean yourself more than him/her. Don’t be a weak person, politeness is exactly for you if you want to be attractive.
8. You are Always Negative
Most people struggle to be happy, they work to earn money so they can solve their financial problems. They find a partner to love and to be loved, to satisfy their sexual necessities. The main aim is to be happy. Negative people are an obstacle for happiness. So we all trying to avoid from negative people. So be positive, be happy and be attractive.